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Wednesdays

While for other people it’s the middle of the week, it’s just another day for me. There’s bread rising, I need to go out and collect the tomatoes that are falling off the vines, and I should eat something. There’s a cello lesson tonight, too.

I discovered this morning that the Rock Band USB mic is actually recognized by the Mac, and records the cello. Unfortunately, it’s a mono mic and the sound is awful. But what I did discover by listening to the playback is that my sound is too timid most of the time. If I want it to sound better, I have to go all out; no holding back, giving notes their full value, especially before a rest, and so forth. Vibrato! Positions to avoid open strings! The whole nine yards.

In unrelated Apple news, I would like my Touch to actually connect to the internet when it says it’s connected.

It was cool enough this morning that I turned off the A/C and opened all the windows to let air move through the house. So much cooler, right away. The A/C and strategically-placed fans can only do so much for so long.

Twenty pages got edited yesterday. I found one last [write this bit] that I’d forgotten about, and that’s the last one in the book. Then I go back to trying to find a good hook to open with. I wrote a new prologue and a new opening page for the first chapter last week; let’s see if they’re still any good when we get to that point again.

Yawn

Yeah, I know. The Court’s a bit boring these days. If I’m here, I’m tired and uninspired. If I’m away, well, I’m away.

I made homemade bruschetta with pearl onions and tomatoes right out of the back garden last week. Piled it on freshly baked focaccia and couldn’t stop eating it. That ended up being dinner for me. I used Lu’s recipe, roughly, but used lime juice in place of the red wine vinegar. I don’t think I put any herbs in at all. Just tomatoes and onions that tasted like sun, plus sea salt, the olive oil, and freshly ground pepper.

The editing/second draft work on Orchestrated continues apace. I’m at the Oh Noes Accident And Hospital part of the story, which means I think I’ve bridged all the [write this bit here] gaps that I needed to bridge. I’ll find out as I continue on, but I seem to remember everything being pretty straightforward from this point to the end. This could, of course, be an entirely falsified memory cleverly crafted by my subconscious in order to maintain sanity.

With the air conditioner installed as of last Saturday morning, we are blessedly free of the high heat and humidity warnings that are piling up. And as an added bonus, I no longer hear the landscaping crews and power tools working outside. We were trying to make it through the summer without installing it, and really, we did very well. The summer has been cooler than usual, but apparently the weather’s making up for that with a vengeance. Yesterday around six o’clock the thermometer in full sun on the back porch read 42 C/106 F, and that was before factoring in the humidity. (Putting in the A/C unit two weeks before September. What is this world coming to?)

Camping last weekend was lovely. There was plenty of tree cover to shade us from the sun and a very good fire pit on our site, which ended up being the central gathering area for everyone. Lovely new people; and so the (co!)coven grows. The only bad part of the experience was arriving to find the fire pit still smoldering, which means the people who used it before us weren’t responsible. The not sleeping well and waking up in lots of pain wasn’t great either. But everything else was enjoyable. There were many marshmallows roasted.

My spinning wheel still has not arrived. I am antsy and cranky about it, as we are rapidly coming up on a month since I ordered it. I was hoping to have it by Saturday, as that’s when we’re heading out to the Fearsranch in Alexandria for an overnight, and both Fearsclave and his Wicked Old Step-Mother want to see it. Of course, the WOSM has just gone out and bought her own gorgeous double-drive double-treadle Schacht-Reeves Saxony wheel, so we may end up geeking out together over hers instead of mine, as was the first plan, or comparing the wheels, which was the second plan.

I have a cello lesson tomorrow night. I need to play for a while today.

This is the boy’s final week of part-time preschool. As of next Monday he is full-time, which means this Thursday is his last day with the caregiver, and Friday is his last weekday at home. We’re going to go see Ponyo together to mark the occasion.

So yeah. Not very exciting, here. Mostly tired, with a side of exhausted.

It’s Friday…

… which probably means something. Except it doesn’t, because I work at home. Not that I can do that today, as the boy is home with us due to rescheduling, and grr. It’s been one of those Days of Broken Ears, you know? That frustrates me more than outright naughtiness does, somehow. (Although this morning’s episode in the car of rolling down the window and then asking if he could do so was outright naughty, because he can’t roll the window back up on his own. “But I did ask! I asked at the end!” he protested when I reamed him out. Not on my watch, kid. Do it without first asking again and your seat’s going back in the middle of the backseat, where you can’t see out the windows properly.)

The hallway looks spectacular. The colour is a dark cappuccino, and HRH redid all the white trim that chipped off (yeah, not such great quality) when we used the baby gates as well. It’s the colour I’ve been seeing in my mind for the past four years instead of the washed-out-milk-with-a-drop-of-coffee-in-it with a chalky finish that was up there. I hated that finish; you couldn’t wash it, because any swipe with a damp cloth left swathes of permanent colour-change. Very frustrating.

It’s back to school season, and I’ve somehow completely disconnected from it this year. We walked into a department store this week and were attacked by Back To School!!! stuff, and I kind of shrugged and said, Oh, that time of year? It’s probably partly to do with the weather and its not-very-summery-ness. But otherwise, meh. Maybe getting the Mac and the Touch last month assuaged my new-school-supplies need for the year.

We officially have tomatoes. Two plants broke, but HRH rescued the fruit and they’re ripening on the shelf outside.

And… my contributor’s copy of Out of the Broom Closet arrived this morning! It’s a very handsome book and I’m so pleased with it. I’m not going to do a hero shot; I’ll wait for the box of author’s copies to do that.

We’re leaving tomorrow for an overnight camping trip with out local covens, which should be nice and relaxed. (Do you hear that, world? Nice and relaxed.) I handle organization of the two other annual local co-coven events, so this one I told others to handle. Other than offering to bring the camp stove/BBQ, a sack of corn on the cob, and outlining a menu for lunch, it’s someone else’s show/lists/booking/schedules, for which I am grimly thankful. All I have to do is show up and camp. Besides participating in rituals, that is. And any rit I don’t have to write or run these days is a good one; I am so burnt out doing that and the organization thing.

Right; they boy has shut himself in his room to read on his bed. I will try to take advantage of this by working some more on Orchestrated. Yesterday there were about twenty pages edited, and three new ones appeared. I found a decent timer app for Macs that helped immensely; I set it for five minute intervals and realized that by giving myself a five-minute minimum, I was also giving myself permission to write past five minutes. I found myself restarting the timer over and over. Also, the day seemed to go very slowly for some reason, which helped a lot.

Right. I have just been asked for crackers and cheese. That, then work.

The Home Update

When we got home we discovered that the garden had gone rioting while we were away, so HRH took it in hand. The first thing we did before we even got into the house was pull out one of the carrots with the boy, who had been asking about them for a month, and lo and behold, it was carrot-sized, and very sweet! He’s had one a day since we got home.

We should have harvested all the peas before we left; they’re a bit sour now, but cooking them in sugar water will help that, Ceri tells me. We have a staggering number of green tomatoes, and three or four are even ripening and will be ready in a day or so! Yes! Real tomatoes this year! If they all ripen I will be able to make staggering amounts of preserved tomatoes. It’s probably mostly due to HRH thinning out the tomato plant foliage before we left to allow sunlight through to the fruit. And when he weeded everything out and pulled out the last of the lettuce, HRH found that a cucumber seed had actually taken and had stealthily been growing under the lettuce and potato greens. There are a couple of flowers on it, so we’ll see what happens there.

It’s the eleventh and so time for the boy’s monthly post, but that can wait as it took me three days to do the post-trip roundup.

I pulled the cello out last night once the boy was in bed and HRH was downstairs. Just before I left for NS I’d done a bunch of water-related work: washing several loads of dishes, bathing the boy, scrubbing the bathroom, washing my hair, that sort of thing. Just a lot of it in a very short period of time. And my callouses started lifting right off! While I was gone the last bits flaked off entirely, so I sat down with very smooth fingers last night. Well, the callouses are starting already, which is good. I played for about an hour, reviewing things, trying a new piece in the Positions book by Mooney, then messed around with all the harmonic positions on the C string. My teacher contacted a few of us yesterday and asked if anyone wanted a lesson next week, as she’d be in town and free, so I waved my hand madly. I know I’m doing things wrong, I just can’t figure out what.

HRH tells me the hallway and the fourth wall of the living room will be painted this week! We’re off to secure paint chips today.

Obligatory Vacation Roundup

I’m so tired. It’s partially the post-vacation Fibro Strikes Back effect, and partly the horribly oppressive weather. It takes so much energy to think, let alone move.

Right. So we left for Nova Scotia on Saturday August 1, on the highway out of the city around 9:00. I have to say that the drives at either end of the trip were spectacular. Excellent weather, a minimum of traffic, and the very best kind of company in the car itself. There was almost (almost!) enough room for the cello in the trunk. There very well might have been if I already had the 7/8 soft case my luthier has on back order for me (we’re switching the current 4/4 case for it).

I’d have to check my Twitter feed for details about the drives, but really, it’s enough to say that they were remarkably smooth and quick. Well, except for the horrendous traffic around Drummondville. There had been some kind of accident, bad enough that three sets of flares had burned down by the time we passed the location, and we drove at 10 kph for an hour along with countless other people. (I’m not kidding. I wish I was.) We live in a stunningly beautiful country, and I am reminded of this every time we drive through the Saguenay region on the way to the New Brunswick border. The highway travels right along the river, and there are small mountains that look like sleeping dragons (and yes, every time we drive through the area I think there must be a story in that somehow, “The Sleeping Dragons of the Saguenay”).

We tried to stop in Grand Falls for the night but the hotels were full, so we called ahead to Woodstock and stayed there. The boy was enchanted with the motel room we got, which had a small room off the main room. “This is my room?” he said as we walked in, “It’s… aweshome.” This was his first experience with hotels, and we were prepared for it to go badly, but he slept very well indeed. I brought my laptop and we watched some Animaniacs before bed, which he thought very exciting too. All along the trip he told people that he was headed for the ocean, to put his feet in it.

We drove to Mahone Bay the next day and got there around 3:30. My mother had called while we were on the road and said that all the cousins were down and there would be fifteen people for dinner at the cottage that night. I said, “Um, sure.” (My mother was also down on vacation, staying with my aunt.) When we arrived the cottage was empty, thank goodness, and so HRH unloaded while I took the boy right down to the ocean. We took off our shoes and without any hesitation he waded right in and kept going, soaking his clothes. We leaned over and dipped our fingers in and then touched them to our tongues, and he paused for a moment and said critically, “Not bad… I like it!” (We’d already warned him about not drinking it, but tasting was important.) The air was so fresh.

Everyone showed up (and I mean everyone: all my cousins but one, everyone’s progeny, three generations of people) and it was so much fun. I was slightly leery of that many people at once right at the beginning of the stay, but it was fabulous. We all picked up right where we left off the summer we went down for Ceri and Scott’s wedding eight years ago, all at ease with one another and parenting everyone else’s kids in the ocean from the deck, and drinking and nibbling and laughing. The boy threw himself into his generation of cousins with great glee, running around in the ocean and climbing on rocks with them. I always forget how much I love this branch of my family, how at ease I am with them. My cousin currently located in Hamilton came down with his family too, and he took all the kids out in the fishing boat. The boy was a bit traumatized when the boat turned and passed the cottage, as he thought they were coming back, but he heroically held on and didn’t burst into tears till we lifted him out of the boat and he clung to me, sobbing, “I missed you! I wanted you there!”

The next morning it rained, but that was fine; the boy got to explore the cottage. Over the week it rained mostly at night, with lovely clear days; absolutely perfect vacation weather. The boy went into the ocean every single day. When the rain cleared a bit we picked my mother up and drove to Lunenburg to see the ships and the fisheries museum, and we had lunch (a nice mix of seafood appetizers for Mum and I, fish and chips for HRH; the boy had chicken, as he had pretty much everywhere). I think we went to my aunt’s house to have dinner with my aunt and mother that evening, and the boy got to spend time with a ten-year-old cousin visiting from Ottawa to do a two-week sailing course. (Yeah; lots of family in and out and about. There were logistic problems a couple of days before we arrived, we heard.)

Tuesday was our in-town day, where we parked in the middle of the village and walked to all the shops we wanted to visit, then stocked up on groceries for the stay. We went to the candy store to buy fudge (the creamiest fudge I have had from any shop, ever!), sighed over Birdsall-Worthington Pottery, visited Amos Pewter where the boy watched a craftsman make a beautiful spun bowl (we bought a triple maple leaf ornament for the Yule tree, and I bought a lovely pair of earrings), and I went into Have a Yarn, which was an absolutely lovely shop. The salesgirl gave me a card for someone in Lunenburg who spins and sells stuff but we’d already made our trip to Lunenburg; next time, I guess. I finally cracked and bought fibre to spin, even though my wheel hasn’t arrived yet: two 50gm braids of mulberry/heather Blue-Face Leicester sliver and one of green/brown merino. I also picked up a couple of packages of wool fibre seconds from Brigg & Little to mess about with, as they were only three dollars each. It’s clean but it still has a bit of vegetable matter in it and noils here and there. I tried to comb it yesterday, but I need cards because it’s shorter than I thought. (I has a stash! Oh noe!)

Wednesday we went to Ross Farm, a place I’d visited often as a child. The biggest attraction for the boy was the litter of barn kittens who were pouncing around, although he did climb on the fence to talk to the horse, talked to the chickens for a while, ran around the barn with the carriages and wagons with interest, and showed me a spinning wheel in the main house with great enthusiasm. That night we had my mother over for dinner, and we prepped and ate five pounds of mussels and six pounds of local lobster. It was delicious, and dirt cheap. The boy was very interested in the lobsters while they were alive and in the process of boiling them on a fire HRH made on the beach, but wasn’t as enthusiastic about eating them. We roasted marshmallows over the coals once the rest of us had eaten our fill, though, and that was very exciting. It was wonderful to have my mother there while we were in Nova Scotia.

I’d wibbled about buying the pewter pendant that matched my earrings, and so I went back on Thursday evening to buy it on our way to meet my aunt at the pub. I stopped wearing a necklace when the boy was born and lately I’ve wanted to start wearing one again, but none of my symbolic jewelery has felt right, my amber is all too big for everyday wear, and my more expensive stuff isn’t practical. I’ve strung the pendant on my short white gold chain, and it feels lovely.

A coupe of days into the stay I poked through the CDs in the basket by the resident CD player, and wondered if someone had stocked them just for me. Among them were a Joshua Bell album, an early Yo-Yo Ma/Emmanuel Ax recording of the first two Beethoven cello sonatas, and a three-disc set of Jacqueline du Pre material. The third (called ‘Recital’) saw a lot of play. And because it was so damn quiet at the cottage, we could leave all the windows and doors open and hear the music drifting down to the beach. Heaven. I really missed the cello; I spent most of my cottage time reading instead. (HRH has promised to build me a Prakitcello for future trips!)

The drive home was even shorter than the drive there somehow, even accounting for the hour delay due to the accident at Drummondville on the way. We made it all the way to Edmunston the first day by four-thirty, and were home early afternoon on Saturday August 8.

The boy loved it all. He happily spent hours standing in the water, relocating handfuls of seaweed or rocks to different places. He played with sticks, water pistols, and the hammock. We saw little fish, all manner of waterfowl and shore birds, crabs, plenty of winkles and snails. HRH took him out in the canoe a couple of times. He slept hard and well every night, was awesome in the car, and was one of the reasons this trip was such a success. He has already decided that we’re going back next year, and has told us several stories where he packs up his friends and extended family and takes them all to Newfoundland (“You mean Nova Scotia,” we correct him every time) to put their toes in the ocean. And really? It’s not to hard to twist our arms. If we don’t go back next year, then certainly the year after that.

Back!

We returned about an hour ago from our trip to Nova Scotia. We are tired but happy, freckled or lightly tanned, but not burned. The weather was pretty much perfect the entire time. The boy adores the ocean, as is proper. The house is in great shape and the cats don’t appear to hate us, thanks to Blade’s good care.

Twitter kept me sane in the car, even though I couldn’t read what other people were saying in response to my updates.

Laundry has already begun. Now, a belated lunch.